1 Samuel 25
This story is one of my favorites as
an example of women who were honored in the Old Testament. Often, the
church peddles a romanticized and chivalrous ideal (which has no
foundation in Scripture) to encourage women to be submissive, quiet,
dependent, and careful not to make waves. Particularly within a
marriage, many churches teach that women should submit to the decisions
of their husbands, even if the husband is making very wrong decisions.
Women are encouraged that if they will submit and pray, God will honor
this and intervene on their behalf. God may, of course, but often this
type of response leads to more problems including domestic violence and
abuse.
In contrast to what the world’s cultures may
say—and in the Old Testament where women lived in a world that had far
less equality than exists today—Scripture honors women who were anything
but quiet, fearful, submissive, or weak when it comes to discerning the
will of God and obeying Him. God consistently honors their boldness,
not in being aggressive toward men or others, but in their wisdom and
obedience to God.
In this story, Abigail is a wife of a man named
Nabal who is foolish (his name actually means fool) and whose rash
behavior has caused David to come with 400 men to destroy his household.
When a servant tells Abigail what is happening, she immediately goes
into action without consulting or telling Nabal, who we learn is most
likely too drunk to think clearly. Her efforts saved the household from
destruction because she understands the ways of God more than Nabal
does. She so impresses God and David that her evil husband becomes ill
and dies, and David makes her his wife.
In fact, David
praises her for her good judgment. Her actions not only honor God and
save her own household, but David recognizes that her wisdom saved him
from spilling blood in revenge. He realizes this would have led to
negative consequences for him as well.
I encourage you to
read this story, because it is a great message to women who may be
suffering domestic violence or other abuse. Women need to understand
that God can and does honor them for their courage in doing the right
thing for their households.
But, back to the main news
here that Abigail seems to be an Old Testament type of Christ. As the
story was read, I kept seeing images that I had never noticed before:
- Abigail comes riding a donkey
- She presents an offering for Nabal’s trespass (sin sacrifice)
- She asks David to let the blame for the offense fall on her alone (substitutionary guilt)
- She prophecies about David’s reign (declaring the kingdom)
- She is a peacemaker
- She washes the feet of David’s servants
God included a woman in scripture as a type of Christ. I’ll be looking in other stories of women to see if there are more images like this. I was encouraged that, once again, God includes and honors women in His redemptive plans.
Heather Celoria
Christians for Biblical Equality